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<i>BIBLIOGRAPHY-(so little time, so much to know, you got any
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<i>ANTHOLOGIES


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<i>L'Amour: Epigrams and Witticisms on Love The Peter Pauper Press 1957. 
Heavily cynical, but plenty of gems.


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<i>Love Poems and Love Letters Peter Pauper, nd.  Scant but nice.


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<i>Ault, Norman (ed.) Elizabethan Lyrics


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<i>Ault, Norman (ed.) Seventeenth Century Lyrics 1928; William Sloane
1950. Cutts' predecessor (see below) but more obvious and with spelling
and punctuation horribly modernized.


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<i>Barnes, Nellie (Ed.) American Indian Love Lyrics, Macmillan 1925.
Pretty tepid stuff.


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<i>Bartlett, John; Christopher Morley, Louella D. Everett, and Kathleen
Sproul The Shorter Bartlett's Familiar Quotations Pocket Books 1953. 
Some wonderful obscure stuff.


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<i>Bennett, Jean (ed.) Japanese Love Poems, Doubleday 1926.  Too much
versification, but useful.  Impossible to connect individual poems to
their translators or publishers.


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<i>Betjeman, John & Geoffrey Taylor (eds.) English Love Poems Faber and
Faber 1957. Slim but rich.


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<i>Carman, Bliss (ed.) The Oxford Book of American Verse Oxford 1927. 
Inspirational, sentimental, morbid.


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<i>Chadwick, John White and Annie Hathaway Chadwick (eds.) Out of the
Heart 1891, Books for Libraries Press 1969. Great 19th C. sentimental
stuff!


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<i>Cole, Wm. (ed.) A Book of Love Poems Viking 1965.  A very tender
selection, the best of the lot.


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<i>Cutts, John P. (ed.) Seventeenth Century Songs and Lyrics University
of Missouri Press 1959. Priceless!!!


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<i>Daly, Bridget and Janet skeels (eds.) The 100th Boyfriend Real Comet
Press 1987.  This book is great, painful art.


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<i>Davidoff, Henry (ed.) The Pocket Book of Quotations Pocket Books
1942. A good value.


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<i>Fitts, Dudley (tr.) Poems from the Greek Anthology New Directions ND.


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<i>Fraser, Antonia (ed.) Loveletters Knopf 1977.  A bit of a letdown.


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<i>Fremantle, Anne & Christopher (eds.) In Love with Love: 100 of the
Greatest Mystical Poems, Paulist Press 1978.  Unusual breadth.


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<i>Grigson, Geoffrey (Ed.) The Faber Book of Love Poems, Faber & Faber
1973.  Weighted toward the antique, but excellent.


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<i>Henry, Lewis C. (ed.) Best Quotations for All Occasions Fawcett 1945.


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<i>Khan, Inayat and Jessie Duncan Westbrook (ed and tr.) Hindustani
Lyrics Sufi Publishing Society 1919.  Stupendous translations from a
shamefully unpopularized literature, intentionally ambiguous as to
whether the beloved is human or divine, these Urdu translations use the
feminine though Urdu convention spoke male to male. [Mazhar]


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<i>Knappert, Jan An Anthology of Swahili Love Poetry Univ. Of California
Press 1972.  Outstanding, plainspoken, heartfelt, well-done. A culture
unusually preoccupied with shame of rejection.


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<i>Livingston, Myra Cohn (ed.) One Little Room, an Everywhere Atheneum
1975.


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<i>Moffatt, Mary Jane and Charlotte Painter Revelations: Diaries of
Women Vintage 1975.  Not so quotable, but very well chosen selections.


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<i>Murphy, Edward F. (ed.) The Crown Treasury of Relevant Quotations
Crown 1978.  Not so serious as it could be.


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<i>Norman, Charles (ed.) Come Live With Me-- Five Centuries of Romantic
Poetry David McKay 196.  More Romantic than romantic.


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<i>Pound, Ezra and Noel Stock (trs.) Love Poems of Ancient Egypt New
Directions 1962.  Pound is notoriously unreliable as a translator.


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<i>Rexroth, Kenneth & Ling Ching (trs & eds.) The Orchid Boat: Women
Poets of China.  McGraw-Hill 1972.


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<i>Seldes, George (ed.) The Great Thoughts Ballantine 1985.


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<i>Thomas, D.M. Logan Stone Cape Goliard 1971. Contains the 'found poem'
"Eden" by son Sean.


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<i>Untermeyer, Louis (ed.) Men and Women: the Poetry of Love American
Heritage Press 1970.  Above average.


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<i>Young, Lailan Love Around the World Hodder and Stoughton 1985. 
Anecdotes about sexual behavior.


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<i>LITERATURE


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<i>Benet, William Rose Golden Fleece (poems) Dodd, Mead 1935.


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<i>Brodkey, Harold First Love and Other Sorrows Vintage 1986.  Short
stories.


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<i>Cale, David Redthroat


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<i>Cavafy, C.P. Collected Poems  Princeton 1975. Ed. George Savidis,
trs. Edmund Keeley and Philip Sherrard.


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<i>Flaubert, Gustave Madame Bovary 1857. (tr. Lowell Bair) Bantam 1959.
A marvellous farce.


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<i>Ginsberg, Allen & Peter Orlovsky Straight Hearts' Delight Gay
Sunshine Press 1980.


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<i>Graves, Robert Poems About Love, Doubleday 1969.  Prodigious!


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<i>Graves, Robert The Poems of Robert Graves Doubleday 1958.


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<i>Millay, Edna St. Vincent Collected Lyrics Perennial 1969.


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<i>Murdoch, Iris The Black Prince


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<i>Murdoch, Iris The Book and the Brotherhood


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<i>Murdoch, Iris A Word Child Viking 1975.  Her best, the most
fabulously shocking tragedy in modern fiction.


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<i>Nizami Layla and Majnun (trs. Dr. R. Gelpke, E. Mattin, & G. Hill)
Shambhala 1966. Gorgeous, heartbreaking, perhaps based on a real couple
of the 7th century.


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<i>Pape, Ralph Girls We Have Known and Other One Act Plays Dramatists
Play Service 1984. Pape's "Say Goodnight, Gracie" is a classic, a jewel.


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<i>Prevost, Abbe Manon Lescaut Dolphin nd. (tr. D.C. Moylan) Absurdly
sentimental read.


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<i>Proust, Marcel Swann in Love 1913 (tr. C.K. Scott Moncrieff and
Terence Kilmartin) Random House 1981.  Swann's a little too
self-absorbed to fall very far.


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<i>Rostand, Edmond Cyrano de Bergerac 1897, Translated by Brian Hooker,
Holt, Rinehart & Winston 1923.


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<i>Tatz, Mark "Songs of the Sixth Dalai Lama" in The Tibet Journal Vol.
VI #4 Winter 1981.


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<i>Tolstoy, Leo Anna Karenin 1877. (tr. David Magarshack) Signet 1961.


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<i>West, Jessamyn The Secret Look (poems) Harcourt Brace 1974.


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<i>PHILOSOPHY, PSYCHOLOGY and SELF-HELP


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<i>Cartland, Barbara Etiquette for Love and Romance, Simon & Schuster
1984.  What she does, she does well.


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<i>Fast, Julius and Meredith Bernstein Sexual Chemistry, M. Evans & Co.
1983.  Anecdotal self-help book.


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<i>Givens, David B.  Love Signals: How to Attract a Mate Crown, 1983. 
Great content, occasional ghastly smug yuppie style.


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<i>Hatfield, Elaine & G. Williams Walster A New Look at Love, University
Press of America 1978.


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<i>Merser, Cheryl  Honorable Intentions: the manners of courtship in the
'80's Atheneum 1983.


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<i>Ortega y Gassett, Jose On Love: Aspects of a Single Theme, Meridian
1957, trans. by Tony Talbot.  A tour de force, great psychological
observation.  Totally unlike his betterknown works.


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<i>Remoff, Heather T. Sexual Choice: a Woman's Decision Dutton/ Lewis
1984.  Not particularly poetic, but fills some gaps in Hite.


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<i>Shuchter, Stephen R. Dimensions of Grief: Adjusting to the Death of a
Spouse.  Jossey-Bass 1986.


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<i>Stendhal Love 1822. (tr.Gilbert and Suzanne Sale) Penguin 1975.


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<i>West, Jessamyn. Love Is Not What You Think Harcourt, Brace & Co.
1959.  Quaker-traditional, possibly a reply to Ortega?


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<i>HISTORICAL


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<i>Abelard, Peter The Story of my Misfortunes 1135 A.D., trans. H.A.
Bellows, Macmillan 1972.


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<i>Alighieri, Dante La Vita Nuova 1294 A.D., trans. Barbara Reynolds,
Penguin 1969.


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<i>Dronke, Peter The Medieval Lyric Hutchinson 1968, 1978.  Both
artistic and scholarly.


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<i>Gonick, Jean Mostly True Confessions  newspaper columns, a little too
cynical but funny and (mostly) true.


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<i>Hinckley, Jack and JoAnn Breaking Points Chosen Books 1985.


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<i>Hite, Shere Women and Love 


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<i>Rothman, Ellen K. Hands and Hearts: a history of courtship in America
Basic Books 1984.  Nicely done microscopic historical look.


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<i>THE SCIENCES


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<i>Schank, Roger and Abelson Scripts, Plans, Goals and Understanding: an
inquiry into human knowledge structures<br>
Lawrence Erlbaum 1977.  First look at planning in story analysis.


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<i>Shaw, Evelyn and Joan Darling Female Strategies Walker & Co. 1985. 
Animal sexual behavior with special emphasis on the females.


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<i>Shields, William M. Philopatry, Inbreeding, and the Evolution of Sex,
SUNY Press 1982.


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<i>De Waal, Frans Chimpanzee Politics Harper & Row 1982. Why is this
daring essay out of print?


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<i>Beauty clothes dance deception desire face flirt friendship gift
grace hair heart home husband kiss loneliness love marriage parting
passion poetry pride sex smile solitude tears vanity wife woman wooing


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<i>TYPOLOGY of loves (has image / expectation?)


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			if needy		if lost		if disappoints<br>
parent > child		help			mourn		teach


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<i>Child > parent		(ignore)		anger-panic	anger


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<i>Owner > object		maintain					discard / fix?


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<i>Fox > chicken					anger


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<i>Friend > friend	help			mourn?


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<blockquote>
'Madrigal"<br>
Dear, when I did from you remove,<br>
I left my joy, but not my love;<br>
  That never can depart.<br>
It neither higher can ascend,<br>
  Nor lower bend.<br>
Fixed in the center of my heart,<br>
  As in his place,<br>
And lodge'd so, how can it change,<br>
  Or you grow strange?<br>
Those are earth's properties and base.<br>
Each where, as the bodies divine,<br>
Heaven's lights and you to me will shine.<br>
Edward Herbert, lord of Cherbury (1583-1648) (1608) [Ault1]


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